Comm. Omnium Fidelium Defunctorum
Today is the Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed, more colloquially known as All Souls' Day. All Souls’ Day this year is particularly fitting. This year alone, I have had sad privilege to attend three funerals, two of which were just in the last two weeks. All three deceased were people whom I knew fairly well in my earlier childhood but haven’t seen much over the last fifteen years.
The first was my great-uncle Danny, 82, my paternal grandfather’s youngest brother and last of the male children of his family to pass on. Uncle Danny was a devout Catholic all of his life but sadly succumbed, as so many of the pre-Vatican II generation, to the Novus Ordo mentality. No mention of Purgatory or prayers for his soul were to be found when he passed. His Mass card at the Funeral Home did not even have a religious picture on it. How sad!
The second to die this year was the Larry, 93, the father of my god-father. Not a blood relative, Larry and his family were close friends to ours well before and during my earlier lifetime. Just the same as with Uncle Danny, Larry was a devout Catholic, Knight of Columbus, and very well respected in the Catholic establishment of the section of the Bronx from which we all came. And just as with Uncle Danny, no mention of Purgatory, but at least his Mass Card was religious in nature.
Lastly, my Aunt Fortune, having battled a rare brain disease, succumbed to it at the age of 49. She was my Aunt by marriage to my Uncle Mike, my mother’s brother. Having been raised a good Catholic girl in and around the Tristate area of NYC, she (along with my uncle and cousin) moved to a small town in upstate NY well away from her social support. My mother’s family was never particularly devout, save for my great-grandmother, and the Catholic dioceses in upstate NY have had a long history of some of the worst liberal bishops. It is no wonder to me that Fortune found little support in the disastrous Albany Diocese and left the Church for the devoted and "doctrinally purer" Baptists. She died without the graces of Confession, Extreme Unction, and Holy Viaticum. Her funeral was a Baptist service in which she was essentially canonized and her body was cremated and not buried.
All three of these folks need our prayers. If they received the grace of God’s mercy and are in Purgatory, please pray for them.
The first was my great-uncle Danny, 82, my paternal grandfather’s youngest brother and last of the male children of his family to pass on. Uncle Danny was a devout Catholic all of his life but sadly succumbed, as so many of the pre-Vatican II generation, to the Novus Ordo mentality. No mention of Purgatory or prayers for his soul were to be found when he passed. His Mass card at the Funeral Home did not even have a religious picture on it. How sad!
The second to die this year was the Larry, 93, the father of my god-father. Not a blood relative, Larry and his family were close friends to ours well before and during my earlier lifetime. Just the same as with Uncle Danny, Larry was a devout Catholic, Knight of Columbus, and very well respected in the Catholic establishment of the section of the Bronx from which we all came. And just as with Uncle Danny, no mention of Purgatory, but at least his Mass Card was religious in nature.
Lastly, my Aunt Fortune, having battled a rare brain disease, succumbed to it at the age of 49. She was my Aunt by marriage to my Uncle Mike, my mother’s brother. Having been raised a good Catholic girl in and around the Tristate area of NYC, she (along with my uncle and cousin) moved to a small town in upstate NY well away from her social support. My mother’s family was never particularly devout, save for my great-grandmother, and the Catholic dioceses in upstate NY have had a long history of some of the worst liberal bishops. It is no wonder to me that Fortune found little support in the disastrous Albany Diocese and left the Church for the devoted and "doctrinally purer" Baptists. She died without the graces of Confession, Extreme Unction, and Holy Viaticum. Her funeral was a Baptist service in which she was essentially canonized and her body was cremated and not buried.
All three of these folks need our prayers. If they received the grace of God’s mercy and are in Purgatory, please pray for them.
